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I recently read a very interesting excerpt from this book.

The author suggests that the very qualities most of us seek out in long-term relationships--stability, equality, constant togetherness--are also responsible for the death of passion and sexual excitement in those same relationships. Further, it is unrealistic for us to expect that one person should or will meet all of our emotional needs. She encourages more autonomy in daily life, exploration/exploitation of power and control in the bedroom, and letting go of shame and fear associated with sex.

Thoughts?

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